Hi (Furry)friends,
It’s been ten days ago now
since the Angels came
to bring my furryfriend Stranger
home to Furryland.
Granny is still grieving,
but she wants to help me anyway
with this special post
in loving memory of my Pal Stranger.
This is how we met Stranger
6 years ago.
He was sitting on the table
in the garden
and ate the bread of the birds.
Every morning
when we woke up
he already was sitting on the table
waiting for crumbs…
and Granny called him Breadcat ever since.
Granny thought he was a straycat,
but after a while
Grandpa found out that he was one of the cats
of the new neighbours.
Sometimes he was together with his brother…
and then they waited together
until Granny
opened the door for them…
Stranger was always the first
who stormed inside the house..
and when he was eating
it seemed like he never ate before,
because he was gobbled up everything that looked like food….
MY food of course!
But most of the time
Stranger came alone..
Rain or shine,
snowing or freezing….
for 6 years he visited us daily,
and when he didn’t come one day,
Granny was worried
that something did happened to him…
after all…
he was a cat at the age.
We also had our daily private meetings
in the garden
with Big Binky still around in the middle,
me on the right side
and Stranger on the left.
When it was raining
he waited in the children’s house…
and when Granny opened the door…
this is what happened…
he gallopped into the house…
and you could hear
the soundtrack of Bonanza.
He loved to be with us..
investigated every spot in our house…
played with my toys…
and sat with Grandpa on the couch…
made himself comfortable…
on the stove..
even if he wasn’t allowed to be on it…
and he never listened to Granny anyway…
He slept on the footstool…
helped Granny not….
to fall down of the stairs…
took sunpuddles with us…
he was always with us….
he only slept at home…
Or sometimes he pretended he was homeless,
and slept in the garden dustbin.
We have wonderful memories of him..
We saw that he was getting demented last year…
and he didn’t hear much anymore…
he just sat on the chair,
or outside on the table,
on the wall or ground…
and stare in front of himself…
or sat for hours on Granny’s lap..
just like a baby….
On the 18th of December last year
Stranger decided
not to run away to die,
like some cats do when they know
it’s time to go to Furryland,
but he wanted to stay with us…
He still wanted to eat and drink…
but slept almost the whole time….
His brother came twice to visit him…
and then he gave him a kiss…
we knew he was saying goodbye to him.
Wait a minute…
We need a tissue now…..
I think I make that a box…
The morning of the 27th of december
Granny found him on the kitchen floor
and she knew that this was his last day with us.
She stroked him
and talked to him,
and he went to the corridor
and jumped on the cupboard to sleep.
Meanwhile Granny put an Angel
of Rose quartz next to him
and said to Stranger
that this Angel will guide him
home…
Then Granny got inside the kitchen again
and heard something in the corridor.
She turned around and didn’t saw Stranger
nor the Angel.
Then she saw Stranger on the chair
in the corridor.
She cuddled him
and found the Angel lying on the cupboard
on another place…
She went back and brought the Angel
to the chair,
but then he jumped of the chair
and was lying on the floor again
in front of the door….
Granny told him
that he doesn’t have to be afraid
and that we’ll see each other again….
and then it all went very fast…
Granny and Grandpa were both with him
when he went to Furryland…
We were relieved that he didn’t had to suffer,
and that we could give him
what he needed most
Love and care….
Now the table is empty…
nobody’s waiting…
this will never be…. 😦
Stranger 27-12-2013
For always in my heart.
…..
– P A W K I S S –
…
We want to thank everybody who supported us
during this difficult time.
Thank you for your comforting words
and sympathy.
We know Stranger is home now,
with our Angel.
…
Angelswhisper2011 
Dec 05, 2016 @ 22:06:35
Beautiful story, made me very emotional, what a wonderful thing your Granny did lending her angel to guide Stranger home. What a good cat you are too, Binky, lending Granny and your home to someone in need xx
Dec 07, 2016 @ 17:24:19
Thank you, Samantha. Sorry we made you emotional, but the rose quartz is such a wonderful crystal to guide you home, so we thought you had to read it, just in case you didn’t know. We always remember Stranger, especially this time of year. It was very special that he choose us to leave his soul behind ❤ ❤ ❤
Dec 08, 2016 @ 07:23:26
Yes, I haven’t had reason yet to use rose quartz in such a way yet, but I shall always remember that now, thank you very much xx
Jan 18, 2014 @ 04:33:55
We’re so sorry that Stranger had to go to Furryland. What a beautiful tribute to such a special and adored friend. We’re glad that he chose to be with you and let you love him right up to the end.
Sending soft purrs to comfort you during this sad time.
Charlemagne, Tamar and Mal
Jan 24, 2014 @ 11:31:33
We’re thankful we had him around, Charlemagne, Tamar and Mal. We loved him so much and still miss him. Thank you for bringing comfort. *Pawkiss*
Jan 18, 2014 @ 00:51:14
We didn’t know Stranger but we have tears. He was so fortunate to have folks who loved him so much and were able to be with him as he left.
Jan 24, 2014 @ 11:37:29
We were thankful to have him, Jans. He deserved it 🙂 Thank you for bringing comfort. *Pawkisses*
Jan 14, 2014 @ 19:51:42
Stranger was a special cat. Beautifully written.
Jan 17, 2014 @ 09:45:38
Yeah, he was, Dianda. Thanks for stopping by and bringing comfort. *Pawkiss*
Jan 13, 2014 @ 05:55:16
This is a very beautiful tribute and you have plenty of sweet memories. Stranger was a pawsome mancat and he had adopted you as his family.
Sending you many more purrs.
Jan 13, 2014 @ 12:45:34
Thank you for your comforting words, Texas. We do need the extra purrs. *Pawkiss*
Jan 12, 2014 @ 03:18:09
What a beautiful tribute. So glad that you had six wonderful year and that he pick your family to say goodbye with.
Whisker kisses
Marty
Jan 12, 2014 @ 09:26:03
Thank you for stopping by and bringing comfort, Marty. Very appreciated. *Pawkisses*
Jan 11, 2014 @ 21:23:59
oh that brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your sad loss, Stranger sounds like a very unique and wonderful cat and I feel so honoured to have read about him in your blog. He was lucky to have such wonderful friends who gave him lots of love and I am sure that he is happy now with the angels. Thank you so much for sharing this story. Paw hugs and Paw Kiss, Morris.
Jan 12, 2014 @ 09:52:33
Thank you for your lovely words of comfort, Morris. We carry him in our hearts forever. *Pawkiss*
Jan 09, 2014 @ 05:37:15
What a lovely tribute to your beloved friend Stranger. Thank you for loving hime so much, and so very well. Hugs, purrs and prayers.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:05:00
Thank you for your purrs and purrayers. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 18:19:50
Such a lovely tribute to him. Hugs to you xxx
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:05:40
Thank you for the Hugs Misaki. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 14:06:38
I am so sorry for your loss. I understand how difficult it is to lose a friend (they’re always more than just a pet!). This is a beautiful tribute. Wishing you all the best.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:06:35
Thank you for your comforting words. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 13:00:23
Beautiful.
When a ginger is special, they seem extra so. Like Ginger William, our friend who hitchhiked a lift wih us on the other side of the continent.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:08:49
Thank you. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 09:53:56
I’m really sorry for your loss, what a beautiful tribute to Stranger. Thinking of you at this time. Best wishes, Cheryl.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:09:26
Thank you Cheryl. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 02:52:59
You brought tears to my eyes. We have to remember how precious our pets are.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:10:25
Yes, they’re very special, Val. Thank you for bringing us comfort. *Pawkiss*
Jan 08, 2014 @ 02:18:30
What a beautiful tribute to Stranger. Purrs to all of you….
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:10:57
Thank you for your purrs, Island Cats. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 21:32:05
This is a beautiful tribute! Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful memories of you furry friend. Our condolences to all of you. You will be in our thoughts. Jackie, Sienna, and Samantha.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:11:54
Thank you for your comforting words, Jackie, Sienna and Samantha. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 21:02:57
What a wonderful tribute to Stranger. He was such a lovely cat! We’re so sorry that he passed away! 😦 But we’re sure he knew that he was loved so much by you and your Granny and Granddad. You must miss him so much. Wish we could help! Sending lots of kisses your way! ❤ Roxy & Tigerlino
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:15:40
We miss him every day, Roxy and Tigerlino. It’s very quiet around here now. His brother came by a few times looking for him, that makes it extra hard 😦 Thank you for your comforting words. They do help. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 20:09:34
Wat een mooie herinnering aan Stranger, ik moest wel even een traantje weg pikken wat zeg ik een hele zee moest ik weg werken. Wat heb je hem mooi beschreven. Sterkte lieve zus.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:18:40
Ik ken dat gevoel, zus 😦 Ik wilde helemaal niet meer naar buiten kijken, omdat ik hem dan niet zag en Tess is ook al een paar keer langs geweest om Stranger te zoeken. Dat maakt het er ook niet gemakkelijker op. Nu gaat het wel weer. Leuk dat je reageerde. Doet een mens altijd goed! *Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 19:54:50
Chuckles: my deepest sympathy and i know Stranger was in the best care ever…his new journey takes him away but i bet his memories of the time spent with you and Granny are alive both with him and here. ruffHUGs and rest in peace, Stranger. anyone who enjoys eating is tops in my books. 😛
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:23:52
Thank you Chuckles. Now he’ll be famous too…sigh… *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 19:25:55
Oh, Little Binky… I don’t know what to say… Thank you for the box of tissues warning since Servant Z has used a full box.
This is a beautiful good-bye for honoring his memory. I’m truly sorry for your loss from a distance, I’m afraid to imagine yours, Granny’s and Grandpa’s sorrow.
It has been a fortunate choice of Stranger to go to Furryland from your house. It must be very hard what you’ve been through, but Stranger was very lucky to have you all.
We’ll all miss him… We’ll meet all together someday at the special placw where there’s no definition of time but where there’s only love.
Thank you for sharing, we only can say that we’re share your sorrow with love and pawkisses.
Yelloz and Servant Z
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:46:33
Thank you for your comforting words, Yelloz and Servant Z. We will meet again. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 18:15:05
Oh this is so sad,we are so sorry that you lost your friend Stranger,thankyou for being there and taking care of him till he crossed,snuggles and hugs to you all,xx Speedy and Rachel
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:48:41
It pleased us that we could help, Speedy. Thank you for your snuggles and hugs. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 14:58:59
Once a Stranger, then Friend, now an Angel. You must have loved him a lot.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 08:51:46
Mooi gezegd, Marion. We hebben hem in ons hart gesloten, alsof hij bij ons hoorde. *Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 10:57:58
Dear Stranger – he knew a good place when he found one. Does his brother ever pop over to see you anymore Little Binky? How you must miss him.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:00:55
Thank you for your comforting words, Annie. His brother came by the same evening when Stranger died. He was looking for him, so Granny told him that he was in heaven now. After that he came by a few times, he is a little confused..just like me… His brother and I are not furriends. He’s mister dominant in our street, so I hide
and hissmyself when I see him. Maybe he’s getting more gentle to me now Stranger is gone. We have to see, I’m hardly on the road this time of year 😉 *Pawkiss*Jan 07, 2014 @ 08:59:48
That was such a lovely tribute to Stranger. I’ve actually got tears in my eyes and I’m at work. I’ll have to go read something else before someone else turns up and sees me.
You all looked after him so well, he knew he was loved.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:06:21
Awww, Draliman…. Sorry to make you almost cry 😦 We were pleased to take care of that ol’boy. He lives on in our hearts now…tissue please… *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 08:36:26
Oh sweet Stranger…how they touch our hearts and days and leave us so bereft….we see them so often they can become a part of our psyche…and as such are so missed….I am sure Stranger is there watching and saying it’s all ok….I am in your heart..lovely tribute hugs to Granny Little Binky and to you as I am sure you also miss him when you look around your home…Fozziemum xxxx
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:11:12
I’m still very alert before I step into the garden, Fozziemum. Stranger always sat in front of the door and raced inside, without watching me..but we miss that ol’boy. He was one of a kind…sigh… Thank you for bringing us comfort again. You’re one of a kind too! *Pawkisses*
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:32:29
Aww you are too sweet Little Binky! I am sure you will adjust but the fact you are still alert shows he is not forgotten! 🙂 hugs and kissies to you too xxxx
Jan 07, 2014 @ 08:14:51
G’day! it is always sad to lose the four legged ones who provide so my love unconditionally! Sorry for your loss…Paw kisses
Cheers! Joanne
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:13:29
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, Joanne. We carry him right in our hearts now… 😦 *Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 07:59:56
I’m so sorry stranger left, but he was surrounded by love and family. Pawkisses and purrs.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:17:05
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, PLW. You’re going through the same kind of pain right now and that makes us sad too. We wish we could take away the pain of your loss. Please know that we’re here for you when you need Purrs and Extra Pawkisses. Just email Granny. Sending *Healing Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 06:41:26
My heart is aching for you and Granny Little Binky and it’s always such a loss to loose such a beautiful and loving friend. I am so glad that Stranger found a home with you and that he had so much love and that you cared for him. The photo’s and tribute is just beautiful. *big hugs* and lots of love. xxx
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:19:41
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, Sonel. You’re special! We carry him with us in our heart now…sigh…*Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 05:21:15
It was a beautiful tribute. He shall be missed by many of us bloggers
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:20:46
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, my furriend. We carry him in our hearts now…*Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 03:00:21
My heart goes out to Granny, Grandpa, Binky, Stranger’s brother, Stranger’s human whoever they are. With love and prayers to you all. Seeker, Lucy and Maurice.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:25:35
Thank you for bringing comfort again, Seeker, Lucy and Maurice. Stranger’s brother came by a few times looking for him. He’s confused..just like me.
Maybe he’s getting a little bit nicer to me now too.. *Pawkiss*Jan 07, 2014 @ 01:51:17
This is a beautiful and touching memorial to Stranger. You were his true home and he knew that he had found love and caring with you. He was a fine cat.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:41:10
Thank you for bringing comfort again, Flynn. We were pleased to give him everything. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 01:48:52
Very sad to hear about Stranger. A friend is always difficult to say goodbye to.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:41:59
Thank you for bringing comfort, Belsbror. We carry him in our hearts now. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 01:36:34
I can’t believe I’m crying for a cat. This was such a touching story.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:43:33
Thank you for bringing comfort, Bongo. Do you want some tissues…. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 00:53:58
That was such a loving tribute, we feel as though we really knew him. Thanks for letting Stranger know what love was all about.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:44:31
He deserved it, Brian. Thank you for your comforting words. *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 00:43:02
Oh lump in my throat, reading this sadly beautiful homage to Stranger. It’s never easy. Sending love. Paulette & gang
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:45:37
Thank you for bringing comfort again, Paulette and gang. We carry him with us in our heart..sigh… *Pawkiss*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 00:30:35
Little Binky, that is so beautiful and so sad all a the same time. What a beautiful home you gave Stranger and how lovely that he had loving arms to see him over the bridge.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:49:28
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, Princess. We carry him with us in our hearts. We’re thinking of you and your loss too, Zena. *Soft Pawkisses*
Jan 07, 2014 @ 00:15:56
Thank you for sharing your memories of your life with Stranger, what a beautiful kitty. I am so sad for you- my heart goes out to you
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:50:25
Thank you for your comforting words, DailyMusing. We carry him on in our hearts. *Pawkiss*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:53:06
So much kindness for a kitty who needed every last bit of it for his life and for the end of his life. Sometimes when there’s nothing else to do, you just stand by and give love. You and your family did that, Little B. BreadCat will watch over you and be grateful.
Love and licks and tears,
Cupcake
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:51:26
Thank you again for your comforting words, Cupcake. We carry him on in our hearts. *Pawkiss*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:51:27
PAWKISS! This is one of the most touching things I have ever read.
What a beautiful memory you have cultivated. Now I go get a box of tissue. Hugs & kisses & kisses & hugs! _Resa
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:52:54
Thank you for bringing us comfort, Resa. we carry him with us in our hearts. *Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:50:29
My eyes are full of tears as I finished reading your lovely tribute of Stranger…Him being afraid of the quartz angel and then being told not to fear…Animal lovers, we are family…Stranger was meant to be yours and I am so thankful God gave him to you and yours to love him…He was beautiful and I understand the aging, the hearing loss and the long naps…The time still remains so short, how we long to savor each second!!!! Love, hugs, healing and comfort, may they be yours…Trev and I love you and call you family!!!! Mwah!!!!
Jan 10, 2014 @ 09:59:06
Thank you for bringing us comfort and kindness, Trev and mum. Stranger was afraid to let go, he wanted to stay just a little bit longer. Granny had to do something to make it easier on him. He went to the light step by step and in front of the door he finally could let go… 😦 You both are in our hearts too, from the moment we saw you for the first time. *Soft Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:44:00
binky. stranger returned day after day coz him new he could
findz love at yur houz. this post bee beautifully written N we noe
fora fact were stranger still heer, him would knot only say thanx for
this memorial N yur friendship, but him wood all sew say eye loves
ewe all az well, veree veree much. til we meet again at heavens door
thanx for sharin yur storee bout stranger it bee trool lee awesum
xoxoxoxo. R sincerest sympatheez ~~~~~~~
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:16:52
Thank you for bringing us so much comfort again, dear Tabbies. We carry him in our hearts forever. *Soft Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:42:01
I have tears still running down my cheeks – and am finding it quite hard to see what I am writing …. That is such a beautiful eulogy for Stranger. Dear Granny, you are such a blessing! Do you know how rare it is for a cat to stay with us in their last moments? Every instinct in their bodies is to go and hide away from everybody and everything. It says so much about your capacity to love our furry friends!
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story – my heart is with you xoxo
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:20:48
Thank you for bringing us so much comfort again, Pauline. It’s beautiful to see he was loved in blogland too…need some tissue now too. *Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:41:36
This is such a wonderful tribute to Stranger. I really enjoyed reading more about him. He sounded like a fantastic cat. RIP Stranger!
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:22:42
He was very special, Ann. Thank you for bringing us comfort again. *Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:41:15
Stranger. An old soul who recognized kindness and was wise enough to ask. Soft purrs in warm memories of such a star.
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:23:34
He was indeed a Star, Philmouse. Thank you for bringing us comfort again. *Pawkisses*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:33:16
So sorry for your loss, but this is a lovely ode to the one you loved 🙂
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:24:35
He lives on in our hearts, Cathy. Thank you for bringing us comfort. *Pawkiss*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:30:36
*sobbing for Stranger* thank Ceiling Cat Stranger and his brother had you Binky and Granny and Granpa…clearly his other home was just a ‘pretend’ home. He went to THe Bridge knowing he was always loved by all of you…our hearts ache for him but we know he was loved so much. paw hugs, Savannah and Mom Linda
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:26:32
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, Savvy and Mom Linda. We carry him with us in our hearts now. *Pawkiss*
Jan 06, 2014 @ 23:23:30
we are so deeply sorry, what a special furiend Stranger was. Our hearts are breaking. I am sure he is reading this beautiful memorial and purring
Jan 10, 2014 @ 10:27:44
Thank you for bringing us comfort again, Cody. He was very special. Now we carry him with us in our hearts forever. *Pawkiss*